answer to your second q is no: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/17/magazine/the-last-day-of-her-life.html http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/17/magazine/the-last-day

answer to your second q is no: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/17/magazine/the-last-day-of-her-life.html http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/17/magazine/the-last-day-of-h... (long article but worth a read)