I also have a definite preference about what I allow into my digestive system, but if I happen to be in a group that, as a group, expresses a preference for whe

I also have a definite preference about what I allow into my digestive system, but if I happen to be in a group that, as a group, expresses a preference for where to go for a meal, I'll be flexible and eat the best way possible within the given constraints. Surely even a steakhouse has salads. Too frequent deviations of late? politely suggest an alternative or, decline to partake this time. No need to impose one's particular preferences, which is why it comes off the way it does.