That's a great book. It's also the kind of question that this career-planning stuff smashes into. Do you want to get married? Have children? Believe me, those

That's a great book. It's also the kind of question that this career-planning stuff smashes into. Do you want to get married? Have children? Believe me, those are tremendous commitments that will drastically interfere with your career (and vice versa). I've been married 22 years and raised two children to semi-adulthood. It has dominated a quarter to a third of my life.