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Being attracted to someone, even when you are in a relationship, doesn't make a person a whore. It may make them a bad boyfriend or girlfriend, or a bad person

Being attracted to someone, even when you are in a relationship, doesn't make a person a whore. It may make them a bad boyfriend or girlfriend, or a bad person if they act on these feelings, but calling someone a whore for this is ridiculous. I'd be willing to bet, if you've ever been in a relationship, that you've also been attracted to other people while also in that relationship.

EugeneOZ 11y ago
Saying "I love you" to 2 guys simultaneously makes girl a whore. And I don't accept any arguments. First feelings of young people is always a lust, love comes later. You can downvote it to death, it will not change my opinion.
- codezero 11y ago
  Ok. I think you are wrong. But I will clearly not change your mind. I also don't downvote people I disagree with.
  - EugeneOZ 11y ago
    And please don't replace words "falling in love" with "being attracted" - it's dirty way of arguing.
    - codezero 11y ago
      Love can't really be well defined. It always, ALWAYS means something subtly different from one person to the next. It's pretty presumptive to apply your definition of love to anyone but yourself.
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      - EugeneOZ 11y ago
        Let author of this thread decide if he falling in love or just "being attracted". I don't see reasons why you can decide how to name it.
        codezero 11y ago
        I am fine with that. But you are saying that specifically saying they love them makes them a whore. If they have sex, but are only attracted and don't love, are they no longer a whore? I'm just trying to get to the bottom of how you define the word whore and who you apply it to, and when.
chrisBob 11y ago
>> I'd be willing to bet, if you've ever been in a relationship, that you've also been attracted to other people I will assume that EugeneOZ is male, and has decided that this rule only applies to females, so your logic will fall on deaf ears.
- EugeneOZ 11y ago
  I'm male but your second assumption is wrong (and I don't see any logic to make that assumption). Any person who saying "I love you" (NOT as child/mother/father/etc) simultaneously to more than 1 person is a betrayer in my logic.
  - codezero 11y ago
    So, are you saying that adults in open polyamorous relationships are all whores?
    - EugeneOZ 11y ago
      Yes.
      - codezero 11y ago
        You seem to have an extremely narrow and naive interpretation of human emotion and experience. Good luck with that.
        EugeneOZ 11y ago
        Hehe, if you think everybody should share your opinion, then it's you who have naive understanding of world :) Good luck to you too. Bye.
        codezero 11y ago
        No, I completely understand that people aggressively generalize, and form opinions that support their own beliefs. I will always challenge people to think hard about their own generalizations, just like I challenge myself. If you are OK with calling people whores based on a contrived set of rules that you find important, that's your decision.

EugeneOZ 11y ago

Saying "I love you" to 2 guys simultaneously makes girl a whore. And I don't accept any arguments. First feelings of young people is always a lust, love comes later. You can downvote it to death, it will not change my opinion.

codezero 11y ago
Ok. I think you are wrong. But I will clearly not change your mind. I also don't downvote people I disagree with.
- EugeneOZ 11y ago
  And please don't replace words "falling in love" with "being attracted" - it's dirty way of arguing.
  - codezero 11y ago
    Love can't really be well defined. It always, ALWAYS means something subtly different from one person to the next. It's pretty presumptive to apply your definition of love to anyone but yourself.
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    - EugeneOZ 11y ago
      Let author of this thread decide if he falling in love or just "being attracted". I don't see reasons why you can decide how to name it.
      - codezero 11y ago
        I am fine with that. But you are saying that specifically saying they love them makes them a whore. If they have sex, but are only attracted and don't love, are they no longer a whore? I'm just trying to get to the bottom of how you define the word whore and who you apply it to, and when.

chrisBob 11y ago

>> I'd be willing to bet, if you've ever been in a relationship, that you've also been attracted to other people I will assume that EugeneOZ is male, and has decided that this rule only applies to females, so your logic will fall on deaf ears.

EugeneOZ 11y ago
I'm male but your second assumption is wrong (and I don't see any logic to make that assumption). Any person who saying "I love you" (NOT as child/mother/father/etc) simultaneously to more than 1 person is a betrayer in my logic.
- codezero 11y ago
  So, are you saying that adults in open polyamorous relationships are all whores?
  - EugeneOZ 11y ago
    Yes.
    - codezero 11y ago
      You seem to have an extremely narrow and naive interpretation of human emotion and experience. Good luck with that.
      - EugeneOZ 11y ago
        Hehe, if you think everybody should share your opinion, then it's you who have naive understanding of world :) Good luck to you too. Bye.
        codezero 11y ago
        No, I completely understand that people aggressively generalize, and form opinions that support their own beliefs. I will always challenge people to think hard about their own generalizations, just like I challenge myself. If you are OK with calling people whores based on a contrived set of rules that you find important, that's your decision.