I also have useless / frustrating family members. 1. You can't expect changers on the internet to have sensitivity to family situations. 2. You can't control

I also have useless / frustrating family members. 1. You can't expect changers on the internet to have sensitivity to family situations. 2. You can't control other people - it will just lead to heartache. You need to make yourself self-sufficient and learn to separate yourself from irresponsible people. The truth is in this world we're all out for ourselves. > What is something I can put in front of her to stimulate her? Find something stimulating that's not the internet / smart phones. A game? A karma system? Until she does something stupid? Until she tries to gain validation and finds out the internet laughs at her? And it hurts both of your feelings?