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This. You realise the value of the time you pissed away only when it's too late. Unfortunately, college coincides with the most callow years of your life, when

by rmk 11y ago

This. You realise the value of the time you pissed away only when it's too late. Unfortunately, college coincides with the most callow years of your life, when you scarcely know the value of time, or the opportunity you are about to squander. Sigh...

PhantomGremlin 11y ago
college coincides with the most callow years of your life, when you scarcely know the value of time, or the opportunity you are about to squander THIS IS THE BEST COMMENT YOU WILL READ TODAY, IF NOT THIS WEEK!!!! Sorry for the all caps, but "truer words were never spoken". So, anyone reading this who hasn't gone to college or who hasn't yet graduated, heed those words. You will thank the poster perhaps 30 years later.
- dwmtm 11y ago
  “I see it all perfectly; there are two possible situations — one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it — you will regret both.” ― Søren Kierkegaard, Either/Or: A Fragment of Life Thus, follow your heart- dwell not on what you did, nor on what you do, but listen to what you need. Long after, look back, and see, more clearly, what you need now.
  - aaronem 11y ago
    I won't say you're wrong, but I still think I'd rather regret having gone to school than, as I do now, regret having not gone; not that I haven't done rather well for myself, so much as that I'd have liked to do more -- I've learned from experience that the ancestor comment, about how much you have to make up, to be absolutely true; however autodidactic you happen to be, there's a lot of value in the distilled knowledge university courses can provide, and only so many hours in a day -- and days in a lifetime -- besides.
- Jugurtha 11y ago
  One of my friends has loaned some books to my other friend's brother at the beginning of the year. The year being over, I asked my friend if his brother is done with the books. He got back to me saying that his brother asked if I was in 1st year, and that he was surprised when he learned that I graduated and still studying. I had a chance to talk with him yesterday (well, this morning at 4 AM), we were seven people at my friend's. I said that not working harder than I did back in college is a mistake I am paying the price for today. I urged him to work harder than he is for he will later regret it with hot tears. I said that right now, he's in a cocoon where nothing is expected of him except to study, which he should do vigorously, relentlessly, and constantly. He has no other obligations or pressure other than to learn and become excellent. I said if I was asked to kill ten people to be able to go back a decade, I would kill an additional two to show how thankful I am for the bargain. I tried to convey the message because he didn't fully grasp that time wasted is never, ever coming back. That once it's gone, it is forever. That it is the only thing we own only for its very duration, not a second more. I hope he understood. There was a fleeting expression of realization after the chuckles that I hope will grow.

by rmk 11y ago

PhantomGremlin 11y ago

college coincides with the most callow years of your life, when you scarcely know the value of time, or the opportunity you are about to squander THIS IS THE BEST COMMENT YOU WILL READ TODAY, IF NOT THIS WEEK!!!! Sorry for the all caps, but "truer words were never spoken". So, anyone reading this who hasn't gone to college or who hasn't yet graduated, heed those words. You will thank the poster perhaps 30 years later.

dwmtm 11y ago
“I see it all perfectly; there are two possible situations — one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it — you will regret both.” ― Søren Kierkegaard, Either/Or: A Fragment of Life Thus, follow your heart- dwell not on what you did, nor on what you do, but listen to what you need. Long after, look back, and see, more clearly, what you need now.
- aaronem 11y ago
  I won't say you're wrong, but I still think I'd rather regret having gone to school than, as I do now, regret having not gone; not that I haven't done rather well for myself, so much as that I'd have liked to do more -- I've learned from experience that the ancestor comment, about how much you have to make up, to be absolutely true; however autodidactic you happen to be, there's a lot of value in the distilled knowledge university courses can provide, and only so many hours in a day -- and days in a lifetime -- besides.
Jugurtha 11y ago
One of my friends has loaned some books to my other friend's brother at the beginning of the year. The year being over, I asked my friend if his brother is done with the books. He got back to me saying that his brother asked if I was in 1st year, and that he was surprised when he learned that I graduated and still studying. I had a chance to talk with him yesterday (well, this morning at 4 AM), we were seven people at my friend's. I said that not working harder than I did back in college is a mistake I am paying the price for today. I urged him to work harder than he is for he will later regret it with hot tears. I said that right now, he's in a cocoon where nothing is expected of him except to study, which he should do vigorously, relentlessly, and constantly. He has no other obligations or pressure other than to learn and become excellent. I said if I was asked to kill ten people to be able to go back a decade, I would kill an additional two to show how thankful I am for the bargain. I tried to convey the message because he didn't fully grasp that time wasted is never, ever coming back. That once it's gone, it is forever. That it is the only thing we own only for its very duration, not a second more. I hope he understood. There was a fleeting expression of realization after the chuckles that I hope will grow.