"We said all the right secret words! Why am I failing? It was never about those words to begin with." Yep yep yep. I see that a lot. ". It turns out you have

"We said all the right secret words! Why am I failing? It was never about those words to begin with." Yep yep yep. I see that a lot. ". It turns out you have to work on things that a) you know are right, and b) most people don’t know ye" that's also very true. just be pragmatic. always works.