You got lucky. Sounds like your wife got lucky too :) But for every one of you, I'll find ten others who expected a relationship to pull them off a bad trajec

You got lucky. Sounds like your wife got lucky too :) But for every one of you, I'll find ten others who expected a relationship to pull them off a bad trajectory (esp. addiction), and instead found someone who enables, and often shares and promotes, their self-destruction.