Well, you wont be doing interesting things unless you do them... So what if you suck to start off, as long as it doesn’t kill you, injure you or get you arrest

Well, you wont be doing interesting things unless you do them... So what if you suck to start off, as long as it doesn’t kill you, injure you or get you arrested, pay your penance and give it a shot for a while. If it doesn’t work, then try something else that is interesting. At some point you will be known for doing something interesting or have interesting stories of your attempts of trying something interesting. Part of the pursuit of an "interesting" lifestyle hopefully will get you into networking situations where you might find friends and maybe more romantic interests that share your pursuits. Stop waiting to start somewhere, and just start.