I didn't misinterpret your question at all, I just chose to equivocate rather than answer you directly. ;) What you are asking is a question of gays or lesbia

I didn't misinterpret your question at all, I just chose to equivocate rather than answer you directly. ;) What you are asking is a question of gays or lesbians living and surviving in a place that has something like institutional racism or segregation setup against them and where services are denied to them. Does such a place exist in the states today?