I would like to see someone actually attempt to quantify the chance a random employee (that comes in post series A) at a random startup actually cashes out more

I would like to see someone actually attempt to quantify the chance a random employee (that comes in post series A) at a random startup actually cashes out more than a years salary from stock options. Everyone would like to think that working their ass off at some start-up increases the chance of being in the big leagues, but I just have never seen it personally happen. I've spent 15+ years working at small companies/startups, and I have yet to see options that actually resulted in a fraction of what my salary was. I also don't personally know anyone that hit the big time either. So, do it because you love it and are happy with your current situation, not because you think your going to hit the lottery. I have now twice in my life created products that sold well, and made everyone enough money to live off. But never have I ever even been near a situation where I created a product that made tens of billions. And frankly I don't know anyone who has done that. The few millions a product got sold for here or there, wasn't enough to put even $100k in any single persons pocket.