I don't love my daughter because [...] My first sentence professed that "This is going to be a touchy subject as people have children for many different reason

I don't love my daughter because [...] My first sentence professed that "This is going to be a touchy subject as people have children for many different reasons" - I don't pretend to know why anyone here had kids. But your overly intellectuallized and snobbish categorization misses the main reasons. Here's some big ones I missed: working the farm and supporting the parents or for dowry. Entirely valid reasons to have kids depending on circumstance. My point was that kids shouldn't be sold as a solution to existential problems. My best friend did just that and his relationship with his partner has disintegrated because it wasn't a realistic way of dealing with the issues that he has. He'll make a good dad and partner when he figures out what's burning inside him.