In this question you've addressed all the things that are holding you back (low social confidence, in an area with lots of men), and posted a good plan to exte

In this question you've addressed all the things that are holding you back (low social confidence, in an area with lots of men), and posted a good plan to extend your social circles (salsa class, tennis) and even covered your mindfulness about hygiene, etc. Sign up for online dating. Go on dates. Talk to strangers. Do this a lot. Meet a lot of people and get good at being yourself.