Think of yourself as a marionette, a puppet controlled by strings. Do you control yourself, or are you letting other people pull your strings? If you react to

Think of yourself as a marionette, a puppet controlled by strings. Do you control yourself, or are you letting other people pull your strings? If you react to a wrong, you are letting others pull your strings and control you. The other 'wins' because they are controlling you. Any reaction: yelling, fighting, tweeting, blogging, crying, means that they are winning, controlling you. Fairness is a wishful concept, a myth that we want to believe in. Companies are not fair, they have to be profitable and feed the megalomania of the CEO. People change, and so do relationships. Shit happens. Let it go, and move on to Plan B. You control your future, the past cannot be changed.