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By getting drunk I didn't mean getting drunk at noon with kids around, I did mean go out with friends in the bar sometimes. And if you sacrifice your life to yo
by gbog 11y ago
By getting drunk I didn't mean getting drunk at noon with kids around, I did mean go out with friends in the bar sometimes. And if you sacrifice your life to your kids you're putting a potential culpability on their shoulders, and you will be disappointed later, when they go on with their lives, which will rarely be the way you expect.
I don't mean that having kids do not change the life, it does. But if the country you leave in forces you to spend all your time and money on kids to let them have a decent health and education, then your country does it very very wrong.
- solipsism 11y agoCulpability? I might blame my kids in the future for the most amazing thing to have ever happened to me? I don't think you get it. I didn't get stuck with my kids. I'm grateful for every second. I understand drinking for fun, trust me, I've been there. It's a selfishness that's not compatible with my current mission.
- gbog 11y agoRaising kids is no special incredibly demanding mission, it's the normal thing people do in their adult life. It includes some responsibilities but no sacrifice. Becoming parent is not like entering the cloitre to become a monk for life. I think most of children and parent issues nowadays come from this kind of way too deep dedication you and others display in these comments