Parenting is like having your code reviewed constantly: people will judge every decision you make, and you will judge yourself based on things you read and othe

Parenting is like having your code reviewed constantly: people will judge every decision you make, and you will judge yourself based on things you read and other people's children. On top of that, many of these judgements are entirely subjective! I think it's important to take on board the suggestions of others because they provide useful external input. But ultimately what makes fatherhood so rewarding is seeing the way that both you and your child grow together as a result of the way you parent. Good luck and have fun. But remember a lot of the time it won't be fun.