I'm assuming you and your partner are both (at least fairly) smart and (at least fairly) well educated and you are (at least fairly) well resourced (meaning you

I'm assuming you and your partner are both (at least fairly) smart and (at least fairly) well educated and you are (at least fairly) well resourced (meaning you got friends, good relationship to your parents, jobs, ...). You will do just fine. You do not need to be a "perfect" parent, just good enough. Remember to nurture also your relationship with your partner and reserve some time for yourself. When you and partner feel good about your life and are well resources, the kid will turn up just fine.