It seems insulting to suggest that someone's well-informed personal choice about their own life is wrong. Doublely so when you put the blame for the wrong choic

It seems insulting to suggest that someone's well-informed personal choice about their own life is wrong. Doublely so when you put the blame for the wrong choice on others, as if she was so incapable that she's blameless. Just saying, if I were her, I'd be insulted you thought so little of me.