tis true. I was aware that it's not so much as offensive to my humanity as it is offensive to something other than my male identity. But "offensive to me as a n

tis true. I was aware that it's not so much as offensive to my humanity as it is offensive to something other than my male identity. But "offensive to me as a not-male" makes no sense. at that point if it cannot be clearly expressed it is, as you said, overly emotional. wisdom and rebuke (of sorts) welcomed.