The problem with playful banter with acquaintances or coworkers is that not everyone has the same threshold or filter for what is or isn't appropriate, or what

The problem with playful banter with acquaintances or coworkers is that not everyone has the same threshold or filter for what is or isn't appropriate, or what is or isn't hurtful or insulting. Often times, and what I found with my brother in law is, some can serve it up, but they can't take it in turn without getting all bent out of shape or offended. I have learned over the years it's always best to behave cordially and respectfully toward those I work with. I've come to believe that it's simply not realistic to go to work and expect to form deep friendships with people there. I also think this expectation that everyone should be ok with banter and teasing contributes to the lack of diversity we often see now. If everyone you work with is of a certain type, and interacts in the same way, in way that some find insulting or hurtful, then you are not cultivating a diverse group of people, just more of the same.