> it's called eat right, exercise and act like a man/woman absolutely. many men have been taught to act like women all their lives, and tacitly encouraged to

> it's called eat right, exercise and act like a man/woman absolutely. many men have been taught to act like women all their lives, and tacitly encouraged to neglect their physical health and appearance. much of the male 'self improvement' industry focuses around de-brainwashing men of this ridiculous notion that they should suppress all their masculine traits/desires, and the notion that women are somehow not turned on by masculine physical health/development (muscles, grooming, well-fitting attire). things like facial attractiveness and height are actually secondary to these things in the real world. money/success can help, but if you're a schlubby fat rich guy, the type of woman you will attract is probably not ideal.