I learned it that "excuse me" and "pardon me" are both impolite, because they are commands, directing the offended party to further excuse or pardon you. "Plea

I learned it that "excuse me" and "pardon me" are both impolite, because they are commands, directing the offended party to further excuse or pardon you. "Please pardon me" is getting better, as is "I'm so sorry," etc.