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A Curious Midlife Crisis for a Tech Entrepreneur

35 points by kanamekun 11y ago

unoti 11y ago
Pro tip: if you stay with a friend, go ahead and do your own laundry if you're over the age of 9.
- gregpilling 11y ago
  Alternate pro-tip: use google to find wash and fold laundry with pickup and delivery. Source: friend who does this because he is lazy and single
onion2k 11y ago
I feel a little bit sorry for him. He's clearly a lonely guy who hasn't really managed to learn the social skills that enable you to have friends who are happy to have you around them. The money doesn't change that.
- sombremesa 11y ago
  Seems like a fairly selfish person from the article.
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kareemm 11y ago
One of the best interviews I've ever heard was Gregory Galant interviewing Fabrice Grinda on Venture Voice in 2009[1]. Grinda is candid and his story is amazing. EDIT: the awesome interview was in 2005[2], not 2009, although the 2009 one is great too. --- [1] - http://www.venturevoice.com/2009/04/fabrice_grinda_olx.html http://www.venturevoice.com/2009/04/fabrice_grinda_olx.html [2] - http://www.venturevoice.com/2005/12/vv_show_21_fabrice_grinda_of_z.html http://www.venturevoice.com/2005/12/vv_show_21_fabrice_grind...
- vv 11y ago
  Thanks Kareem! He was one of my favorite guests. I'd interviewed much more famous entrepreneurs than Fabrice, but the episode with him was one of my most popular because he was by far the most candid -- even telling me his net worth at every stage of his career.
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gregpilling 11y ago
I know the perfect girl for him, can anyone make an introduction? She is a former model who does the exact same thing ... and also drives people a little crazy for the same reasons.
- maneesh 11y ago
  that sounds like a really bad pairing
delbel 11y ago
This really isn't the kind of stuff I like to read about or expect to find on this site.
- Thriptic 11y ago
  Agreed. At best this is a somewhat alienating and sad character piece with no useful takeaways.
- lazyeye 11y ago
  Agree..this article had no direct use for me, therefore it has no use for other readers or mankind in general.
crimsonalucard 11y ago
Traveling the world isn't exactly a downgrade. Rich people problems.
lhl 11y ago
This is my second stint wandering the world for over a year and I know a few other doing the same, so I thought I'd be reading about a kindred spirit. But instead I was pretty repulsed. I had assumed that the unhappiness in his life-style and the journey to cultivate relationships would end up in personal growth story, but it sounds like he started out as a really shallow, self-centered, and boorish guy and ends up... mostly unchanged. Maybe that's being ungenerous, or just how it comes off in the article. For me, while it's fun to see/meet up with friends in far flung places, my reasons of traveling are more about experiencing the world (it's a big place) and different cultures (and how they are different or the same. I think my biggest objection to Grinda is aesthetic - the idea of reducing possessions and traveling light is to force yourself to grow in specific ways - to be more flexible, resourceful, mindful, and humble. It seems that Grinda managed the trick of getting rid of his stuff and starting a physical journey, while avoiding much of the personal journey that's meant to precipitate, first by inconveniencing others and then by papering over challenges/inconveniences with money instead. Everyone's free to live their own lives, and hey, maybe he is happier now, but I think it's missing the point a bit.
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littletimmy 11y ago
It would benefit this guy if he stopped being overbearing on others and instead tried doing something productive with his money. Like going up against rhino poachers. Or build schools in Afganistan.

35 points by kanamekun 11y ago

unoti 11y ago

Pro tip: if you stay with a friend, go ahead and do your own laundry if you're over the age of 9.

gregpilling 11y ago
Alternate pro-tip: use google to find wash and fold laundry with pickup and delivery. Source: friend who does this because he is lazy and single

onion2k 11y ago

I feel a little bit sorry for him. He's clearly a lonely guy who hasn't really managed to learn the social skills that enable you to have friends who are happy to have you around them. The money doesn't change that.

sombremesa 11y ago
Seems like a fairly selfish person from the article.
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kareemm 11y ago

One of the best interviews I've ever heard was Gregory Galant interviewing Fabrice Grinda on Venture Voice in 2009[1]. Grinda is candid and his story is amazing. EDIT: the awesome interview was in 2005[2], not 2009, although the 2009 one is great too. --- [1] - http://www.venturevoice.com/2009/04/fabrice_grinda_olx.html http://www.venturevoice.com/2009/04/fabrice_grinda_olx.html [2] - http://www.venturevoice.com/2005/12/vv_show_21_fabrice_grinda_of_z.html http://www.venturevoice.com/2005/12/vv_show_21_fabrice_grind...

vv 11y ago
Thanks Kareem! He was one of my favorite guests. I'd interviewed much more famous entrepreneurs than Fabrice, but the episode with him was one of my most popular because he was by far the most candid -- even telling me his net worth at every stage of his career.

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gregpilling 11y ago

I know the perfect girl for him, can anyone make an introduction? She is a former model who does the exact same thing ... and also drives people a little crazy for the same reasons.

maneesh 11y ago
that sounds like a really bad pairing

delbel 11y ago

This really isn't the kind of stuff I like to read about or expect to find on this site.

Thriptic 11y ago
Agreed. At best this is a somewhat alienating and sad character piece with no useful takeaways.
lazyeye 11y ago
Agree..this article had no direct use for me, therefore it has no use for other readers or mankind in general.

crimsonalucard 11y ago

Traveling the world isn't exactly a downgrade. Rich people problems.

lhl 11y ago

This is my second stint wandering the world for over a year and I know a few other doing the same, so I thought I'd be reading about a kindred spirit. But instead I was pretty repulsed. I had assumed that the unhappiness in his life-style and the journey to cultivate relationships would end up in personal growth story, but it sounds like he started out as a really shallow, self-centered, and boorish guy and ends up... mostly unchanged. Maybe that's being ungenerous, or just how it comes off in the article. For me, while it's fun to see/meet up with friends in far flung places, my reasons of traveling are more about experiencing the world (it's a big place) and different cultures (and how they are different or the same. I think my biggest objection to Grinda is aesthetic - the idea of reducing possessions and traveling light is to force yourself to grow in specific ways - to be more flexible, resourceful, mindful, and humble. It seems that Grinda managed the trick of getting rid of his stuff and starting a physical journey, while avoiding much of the personal journey that's meant to precipitate, first by inconveniencing others and then by papering over challenges/inconveniences with money instead. Everyone's free to live their own lives, and hey, maybe he is happier now, but I think it's missing the point a bit.

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littletimmy 11y ago

It would benefit this guy if he stopped being overbearing on others and instead tried doing something productive with his money. Like going up against rhino poachers. Or build schools in Afganistan.