I have a bandmate who is an alcoholic. She mostly keeps it under control, but it's a worry. We have a great friendship and make wonderful music together, but I

I have a bandmate who is an alcoholic. She mostly keeps it under control, but it's a worry. We have a great friendship and make wonderful music together, but I always knew that it ever got to where I had to tell her that it's the bottle or me, she'd choose the bottle. Luckily, she has decided it's a real problem and is sobering up a lot - not completely, but better and more conscious. I've seen others who weren't so lucky.. failed marriages and parenting, car crashes, even worse things.