Online is drinking everything else's milkshake! What a graph! It's easy to see why it appeals so well -- every candidate you examine is looking for a predictab

Online is drinking everything else's milkshake! What a graph! It's easy to see why it appeals so well -- every candidate you examine is looking for a predictable thing, which assuming you're doing your search properly, is roughly the same as what you're looking for. There's still a significant risk that any given match won't care for you or vice versa, but it eliminates an entire layer of annoyance -- that is, that the person you're approaching is not looking for a relationship, or not looking for the kind that you are.