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if you really want to help, help him sell his product or service. if i had a friend in business trouble this would be the first thing to enter my mind. in fac
by beachstartup 11y ago
if you really want to help, help him sell his product or service.
if i had a friend in business trouble this would be the first thing to enter my mind. in fact, it's the first thing that popped into my mind when i read your post. i would give up hours of my day, sacrificing a small amount of input to my own business, to help his make it through the squeeze. i know this because i've done it before in the past.
the fact that this hasn't occurred to you tells me you aren't the right type to help/advise him in any circumstance. you want to tell him to give up - well no shit sherlock. pretty much anyone can give him that advice. how valuable is that advice, exactly, when literally anyone can give it? answer: it's exactly worthless.
so, since you asked, i say keep your mouth shut and let him win or lose on his own merits. he's not a child, and you're not his dad.
- codeshaman 11y agoThat was a rhetorical question, which I've answered right in the post. I can't and wouldn't tell him my opinion, especially since I've been there, done that and I know that it won't contribute to anything - he wouldn't stop until dead anyway. In a way it's pretty similar to giving advice to people hopelessly in love with the wrong person. They'll listen, they'll agree and then next day they'll be back after the person who makes them suffer. I am helping him out, with advice and now with some code, but I cannot help him enough, because I've got my own things going, a family, children, etc. But point taken, good advice. thank you.