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I think that the research shows that self-discipline (or delayed gratification) is the single best indicator of future success in life. http://jamesclear.com/d
by crusso 11y ago
I think that the research shows that self-discipline (or delayed gratification) is the single best indicator of future success in life.
http://jamesclear.com/delayed-gratification http://jamesclear.com/delayed-gratification
- facepalm 11y agoOften when the Marshmallow study is being quoted, they leave out half of the story. Which is that the kids who managed to not eat the Marshmallow didn't do it via iron discipline. They managed it by distracting themselves with other things (for example reciting poems or whatever). So maybe it was more about imagination than self discipline. Or you could say it was about self discipline, but self discipline is not what we traditionally think it is.
- crusso 11y agoIt doesn't matter what coping techniques they used. What matters is that they accomplished the task in a way that showed increased discipline. Additionally, the marshmallow study isn't the only research that shows this effect.
- learnstats2 11y agoThat same page shows that displaying self-discipline/delayed gratification as a child depends on whether people who have authority over you act in a reliably honest way.