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I'm giving two totally different answers for morality and honesty. Why are they conflated?
by GavinMcG 11y ago
I'm giving two totally different answers for morality and honesty. Why are they conflated?
- bryanlarsen 11y agoI presume because then it gives an indication of whether you think morality or honesty is more important.
- to3m 11y agoMuddies the water and fuels discussion! If the question were more precisely specified, there might actually be a right answer :) But, I wondered about this too. In fact my answers were pretty much opposites, depending on which I prioritised. In the end I left the decision up to my gut, and I'm kind of glad I did, because the results had some nice things to say... about my gut, at least. Not sure where that leaves the rest of me. (I found the author's willingness not to pull punches in their assessments admirable, in that he/she avoided any MBTI-/horoscope-style wooliness - but some of the results came across a little overly scathing. If there isn't actually one right answer, there are certainly sections of the result space they're clearly convinced are incorrect. But if its inventor is truly a marriage expert, I've no doubt they have their reasons.)
- karmakaze 11y agoAt first I thought the same, but in the end honesty didn't factor much into it. Everyone was, right or wrong, pretty much straight up with each other. Maybe LJ wasn't so true to RH and MM & RH's relationship must have been somewhat less honest to come out with such opposing expectations but that predates this event. I even have trouble thinking the sheriff isn't honest if he's open about his misuse of power.