The fact is a quiet baby gets no suck. If you are going to ask for a rise you've got to be prepared for it. First search for similar jobs in different companies

The fact is a quiet baby gets no suck. If you are going to ask for a rise you've got to be prepared for it. First search for similar jobs in different companies. Try to learn the salary. When you've figured out an average price write down the pros and cons of changing the job. Because sometimes a little percentage of rise won't worth changing the job for career. If there is not much difference but a small amount of rise will change your living standards then go to your boss and talk like this: I need a rise, my cost of living is increased bec of child, home etc... and I am really happy working here. I think this is why i am productive, bla bla bla.. But currently i can't afford living. I think I've proven myself. On the other hand I'vent been searching for another job tho. Instead I prefered asking for a rise. I think it would really motivate me so that I can provide more."