Here are the choices for message filtering (they updated it over the past year or so): gender, age range, whether they are located nearby, whether they are sing

Here are the choices for message filtering (they updated it over the past year or so): gender, age range, whether they are located nearby, whether they are single, match % Also, if the user pays for A-list they can filter on: how long the messages are, hide if it contains certain words, filter by attractiveness.