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> who live to brag about whatever they do, wherever they go, whoever they are with Yeah, but why is that annoying? What is the core reason for reacting negativ
by pasiaj 11y ago
> who live to brag about whatever they do, wherever they go, whoever they are with
Yeah, but why is that annoying? What is the core reason for reacting negatively to others' self-promotion.
The feeling can be quite viceral, and that might suggest an evolutionary origin. Do we equate self-promotion with unfairness, or taking more than your own share? Or does it have to do with our tendency to define our own well being as a comparison to the apparent well being of others (as in: you got a promotion, so my status relative to the average of my social group got worse).
The fact is, that self-promotion, at least on social networks, is mostly harmless and should not warrant negative emotions. But it does. And that is interesting.
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