I've been in San Jose since 1984. I was three when we moved. I don't remember anything else. I've worked in tech since the end of '99. The valley has changed a

I've been in San Jose since 1984. I was three when we moved. I don't remember anything else. I've worked in tech since the end of '99. The valley has changed a lot. I used to know my neighbors. People used to be polite and helpful. It used to be easy to find a quiet place to sit and reflect, within walking distance of your own home. None of these things seem to be true any more. We have tech though... So that's a thing. I've stayed because I'm a startup junky and haven't hit the Big One yet but my current startup may be my last one. Early phase startups like to see your face. We've grown to the point where I can wok remote and visit every couple months. I'm finally able to leave California. The valley is a neat place to be but I don't think it's a great place to be unless you're willing to give up your right to make your own decisions and give in to the hive mind. It's not a place for free thought, only free engineering thought. Everything else you buy wholeheartedly or you play alone.