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Even now, if we take him to a grocery shop, his conspicuous behaviors would cause people to stare at him. I sincerely hope you still take him to the grocery sh
by fecak 11y ago
Even now, if we take him to a grocery shop, his conspicuous behaviors would cause people to stare at him.
I sincerely hope you still take him to the grocery shop. My daughter stims, makes loud noises, has OCD behaviors, may hit her head, etc. and I make a point of taking her to the stores several times a week. While it's good for her to practice being in public, I also want the public to see her and that there are others like her. As people with autism being in public becomes less of a novelty, other children and adults will eventually learn how not to stare, or in some situations how to help.
- autism_parent 11y agoYes, we do take him out, for the same reasons you mentioned. By now, we have lost any sense of shame or suffering about his behaviors. That was the thing we had to master - our own emotional suffering seeing him stared at.