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Isn't the idea to go out alone and make new friends? You shouldn't have to go out alone tons. Just enough to meet new people.
by a8da6b0c91d 11y ago
Isn't the idea to go out alone and make new friends? You shouldn't have to go out alone tons. Just enough to meet new people.
- rimantas 11y agoIt may be, but it should not. You can go alone for the purpose of making friends with yourself. I this is why, I think, lots of people prefer not to be alone: they are afraid of reflection. Or, god forbid, being alone in silence, without some loud music to deafen the voices you might hear. I see being alone as a kind of meditation.
- __z 11y agoI'm not afraid of reflection or silence, not at all. Just doing things isn't fun alone and after a couple times doing something alone I decide staying in is more entertaining.
- mikecmpbll 11y agoYeah, I should've added the caveat that I'm not so good at that ;). Maybe this article is targeted at already outgoing types.