That is an interesting perspective on party conversation - mentally, if someone says [insert thing] sounds hard, generally my first reaction is to be mistrustfu

That is an interesting perspective on party conversation - mentally, if someone says [insert thing] sounds hard, generally my first reaction is to be mistrustful due to insincerity. If someone is on autopilot with what they say, I will always doubt the intention of that person because the person is on sales mode, and as a sales tactic, it does not sell me on a desire to be around the person long.