You committed badthink, so you get downvoted. Try not to take in personally. It's just what happens here these days. As for what you said, I don't think it's u

You committed badthink, so you get downvoted. Try not to take in personally. It's just what happens here these days. As for what you said, I don't think it's useful it put everything in camps of "lucky" and "unlucky." It assumes that there's nothing an individual can do himself to improve or worsen his station. In the USA and Canada, of all places, that's manifestly untrue. While rags to riches stories are rare, poor to upper middle class stories are extremely common, especially in tech.