I am one of those people, to an extent. Or rather, I largely avoid the dating scene because of the dangers involved. Up to and including paying child support f

I am one of those people, to an extent. Or rather, I largely avoid the dating scene because of the dangers involved. Up to and including paying child support for someone who isn't even yours. Or paying child support for a child resulting from you being raped. And there's no way around it currently. Currently, even if both parties agree, there's no way for them to actually form a binding agreement. It's gotten to the point where prenuptials are essentially useless. They are far too easily thrown out. However, I would not tell you as such in person unless specifically asked, and possibly not even then. It's a good way to get ostracized. Though there's also a moral component for me, but that is another matter.