Maybe spend some time researching the goth subculture if you don't know much about it. Not just online, perhaps try to participate by going to a local club and

Maybe spend some time researching the goth subculture if you don't know much about it. Not just online, perhaps try to participate by going to a local club and talking to people for additional insight. It's mostly aesthetic - music and fashion - but it might give you some perspective or desensitize you somewhat. Alternatively, therapists may be available whom specialize in this sort of thing.