I wouldn't, because it would be a decision by me and for me. It is precisely the manipulative aspect that I am concerned with. I am not against it, in this spe

I wouldn't, because it would be a decision by me and for me. It is precisely the manipulative aspect that I am concerned with. I am not against it, in this specific case, but the "end justifying the means" message it seems to send doesn't ring too well.