I agree with joebeetee, I don't perceive your comments as rude. For what it's worth, in the book "On assholes, a theory" the author states at some point, "How

I agree with joebeetee, I don't perceive your comments as rude. For what it's worth, in the book "On assholes, a theory" the author states at some point, "How do I know if I am an asshole?". And the answer is that if you ask yourself this question, then very probably you aren't an asshole.