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OK, I guess it costs. But I say it's unwise to be miserly along such lines.
by serve_yay 11y ago
OK, I guess it costs. But I say it's unwise to be miserly along such lines.
- gnaritas 11y agoMaybe it is and maybe it isn't, but you assume it's a choice and that's a mistake. You presume it's easy to know how people want to be treated, but there are a great many conditions that make reading other people difficult for entire classes of people. They aren't necessarily being miserly, they may be doing the best they can and that's all they've got. Those with Aspergers for example have to do with intellect what most people do instinctively socially speaking, and that's exhausting for them; they simply aren't wired to be social.