You don't actually know how it happened. quoting from the article: > It’s extremely intimidating walking up to older men, getting them to make eye contact, an

You don't actually know how it happened. quoting from the article: > It’s extremely intimidating walking up to older men, getting them to make eye contact, and then convincing them to fund you through a quick convo. It’s also extremely easy to confuse these approaches with flirting – which is exactly what happened.