> All these people speak slowly and clearly Perhaps, you too, should speak slowly and clearly. Use adjectives. Add a bit of color and side-story. Our brains h

> All these people speak slowly and clearly Perhaps, you too, should speak slowly and clearly. Use adjectives. Add a bit of color and side-story. Our brains have a speed limit. It's mostly the same for pretty much everybody, but some of us have learned the skill of slowing down the conversation. If you slow the conversation down, you have more time to think and come up with something witty to say. So, speak slowly, add adjectives, add color and side-stories, metaphors, I can go on, but you get the picture. Do not add stupidity like "like", "you know", "uhmmm", etc. That's your brain freezing up because you're moving too fast and it is trying to compensate by inserting noise to slow down the conversation. Slow down the conversation deliberately and clearly by adding context.