We're adults building a software tool to help people. Without any proof of wrongdoing - even anecdotal - anyone can barge in under the guise of X and tell us t

We're adults building a software tool to help people. Without any proof of wrongdoing - even anecdotal - anyone can barge in under the guise of X and tell us to refactor our apps because someone foams at the mouth when they hear "Him?" Who? When? How? Then they can go right back to Twitter or Tumblr, or TV, or real life, with the first amendment, an environment vastly more polarizing. A lot of the (very few) programmers pushing this rhetoric tend to be on the puppet strings of a cynical mob of people who don't learn coding, but instead wait in the wings to harass actual engineers. You look them up - these feminists seem to be able to laugh at dark humor. Then I remember the guys who were fired and had their life ruined. Am I the only one seeing this? What can we do?