And women rated about 8.3/10 (rather than perfect 10/10) got the most messages. This is a misleading statement. As a total number of messages, they did indeed

And women rated about 8.3/10 (rather than perfect 10/10) got the most messages. This is a misleading statement. As a total number of messages, they did indeed get the most, since there are more of them, but the ones rated 10/10 still got a lot more messages per individual than those rated lower. And overall, the messages versus attractiveness curve is much steeper for men messaging women than the other way around.