Your point is smart and very well-taken. You don't want to push people in a direction they don't really want to go. They are liable regret it later. A person

Your point is smart and very well-taken. You don't want to push people in a direction they don't really want to go. They are liable regret it later. A person, especially a young person, can become convinced that they are OK with a path they don't much care for, for a few years, maybe a decade. But eventually fate will come knocking, and they will walk away or get depressed. You don't want to be the cause of those lost years.