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How could you possibly infer that I advocate people should only date within their own race? She didn't even say she only dated white people, she said she didn't
by swang 11y ago
How could you possibly infer that I advocate people should only date within their own race? She didn't even say she only dated white people, she said she didn't date Chinese because she is totally put off by them.
What I find about your comments is that you are totally trying to erase race out of the issue then saying it is fine to date only _one_ race. I'm confused by that.
And personally, you only want to date people with <X> trait, that's fine. No one should stop you from doing that.
You don't want to date <Y> because <something stupid>, that's also fine. But don't expect not to get called on bullshit like that.
- mc32 11y agoOk, so I think we basically agree in principle. People can like or dislike people for any reason, when it comes to personal attraction. The reasons can be superficial, or otherwise, but in the end it doesn't matter and it's really no one's business --with perhaps the exception of parents while their progeny are underage, but even then it's questionable. So you think her abhorrence is stupid, fine, we agree she has the right to think her unchoice are ugly and undesirable. I'm sure there are just as many Han women who think whites, blacks, browns, etc., are disgusting, for whatever reason, who cares. They can observe any preference they want.