> Staying with a friend that has a child and helping out isn't the same as having a child. You are able to (and will) leave at some point. Ain't that true. Whe

> Staying with a friend that has a child and helping out isn't the same as having a child. You are able to (and will) leave at some point. Ain't that true. Where it hits you as a parent is when you leave the hospital and then realize that there's no one to give you a spell, check your mistakes, process the return. I can imagine how grandparents must enjoy children, free of the ultimate responsibility.