I guess you could word that as "it means something if what you are the best at matters to you". If there is something that really matters to you, by all means d

I guess you could word that as "it means something if what you are the best at matters to you". If there is something that really matters to you, by all means do all you can to be the best in it. You will love every bit of it while you're trying (okay, not every bit, but you get my point), which will make you happy---for instance, I've never met a great musician who didn't look forward to and didn't love their practice sessions. And, as an added bonus, you might actually become the best, or really, really damn good. That must feel heavenly.