I've been reading books, but reading hasn't been doing much for me, since I'm not really absorbing the material. I want to try 'testing' things out...I don't kn

I've been reading books, but reading hasn't been doing much for me, since I'm not really absorbing the material. I want to try 'testing' things out...I don't know if that makes sense, but I feel like if I have exercises to do, I will understand concepts much faster then simply reading. IMO, then, you've been reading the wrong books. I went through "Learning Rails" (O'Reilly) and followed the text through, actually doing stuff rather than just reading about it, and it worked great. I do recommend the "Learning (foo)" series by O'Reilly, but I don't have a copy of Learning Rails right here to flip through to see quite how absolute-beginner-friendly it is. The Pragmatic Programmers guides to Ruby on Rails are also quite good. Flip through books in B&N or something to see if you can find something with really appealing worked exercises, do it cover to cover, and then sit down with the guys who did your current site and get them to explain it to you. Alternatively, set yourself a target small project that isn't maintaining an existing site, e.g. creating a blog. Plenty of screencasts and online tutorials on that sort of thing to follow along with but I would say most of them assume knowledge of programming, whereas books tend not to.